How to Appreciate the Holiday Season if it's not Holly-Jolly

Stereotypically speaking, the holiday season is meant to be considered a joyous occasion to gather with family and friends. But, sometimes that’s not always the case. Sometimes you may not feel holly-jolly during the holiday season. Such is life. Even so, there are ways to appreciate the holiday season even if it’s not holly-jolly.



Create Your Social Circle

Every person experiences setbacks differently. For example, someone you know may have lost a loved one during the holiday and may not be up for company. That’s okay. Be with the people that are going to help you get through the day, whether it’s a quiet evening at home with just you and your significant other, an outing on the town with several of your friends, or a fun-filled day at grandma’s. Take the space you need and don’t allow societal pressures determine your holiday plans.

Accept Help

People are quick to ask someone that is having trouble in their lives, “How can I help?” That’s a nice gesture, but sometimes you just don’t know what you need. Even so, it’s okay to let your family members offer their assistance during this busy time of year.

Be Gracious

Being a caregiver is often an emotional job and your mood is often dictated by how the person you’re caring for has been feeling. While it’s not always easy to put on a brave face for your loved ones and friends, it’s beneficial to be open with them if you’re not feeling all that jolly.